Monday, February 27, 2012

The February Update--Julner








This month they are talking about love due to Valentine's Day.  They are highlighting the friends that the children have made.  There are 61 children in the Toddler House that live with them.

Julner had his friend Rilinxe (WAY-LEE) write out who his 3 best friends were and why he likes them. Rilinxe is one of the oldest boys at the Toddler House and is a role model for many of the younger children. Julner told Rilinxe what he wanted to write in Creole and Rilinxe translated and wrote it out in English for Julner. Attached to this email you will find 2 pages that Rilinxe helped Julner write and then Julner decorated them. It is fun to see what the kids have to say about their friends in their own words. I hope you enjoy getting a little insight into Julner’s friends here at GLA.
Jean Moliere, Wanderson, Widley are all around 6 years old. They are all in the same care group and Jean Moliere and Widley are also in Julner’s class. These boys love to spend their free time running around the Toddler House yard and joking around with one another before bedtime.
Julner is healthy and growing:
Height: 45.7 inches
Weight: 47 lbs


Being Thankful for Clean Water


Be thankful today for clean water we get from the water department.  This is the water from the water department in Haiti.  Yes people really drink from this.  It is no wonder why they have so many Cholera outbreaks.  these outbreaks increase during the rainy season which starts in April.  Many will lose their lives b/c of the water.  It is shocking!!

Vitamins

I just read on the http://godslittlestangelsinhaiti.org site about the vitamins they give the children. I am just amazed by this wonderful orphanage.  I certainly didn't think they would be getting daily doses of vitamins.   I have read lots of adoption blogs and have never heard vitamins mentioned. What a blessing and now I feel a little guilty cause I have a problem remembering to give them to myself and my kids here.   The blog says--We use 61 gummy vitamins a day, thus that large bottle that contains 365 and would last a normal child a year, lasts us just 6 days.   So they will need more multi vitamin donations.   I know in my heart that we will be travelling to Haiti this year so I'm gonna challenge you to think about purchasing some gummy multi vitamins to donate. 
Wade and I will hand deliver them. L'il Critters Groovy Gummy Vites 220 Gummy Bears You can get them at Costco or Sam's Club.  These boys and many others will get strong with your donation.


 Our Julner is the first boy on the far left in the light blue shirt.


Friday, February 24, 2012

3 Peas in a pod!




There certainly is a lot of love shown through these pictures

My 3 cuties!! New pics!

Yes, I got a February update early.  You would have to be here to see how exciting getting an update is in our house!  Since we never really know the day or time we are going to get an update, I can be paying a bill online one minute and the next minute hyperventilating seeing the update on email.  Today I was talking on the phone to Wade and then it comes.  Wade is like "Honey, is everything ok?" in a panicked voice.  And all I can do is say "It's here!" and breathe hard.  Of course, he is doesn't know what I am talking about and only can think that someone is here in the house or an alien is getting ready to abduct me.
So I open up the email and immediately scroll down to the pictures cause I just want to see them!!  I am so amazed how quickly they change in one month's time.  And of course like any mother, I have to just admire how handsome,beautiful, pretty, cute, funny---amazing these precious children are.   I view and review the pictures to see how they have changed.  I am studying them and my heart is grafting them in.  
 God has so richly blessed me(us). 
So the kids get home and I say "It's here!"  as they are getting off the bus.  Well they all know what that phrase means.  And they run to the computer, like you would run to someone you love who just got off the airplane.  They too just want to see the pictures.  And then after they study their brothers and sister , they ask " How much longer, Mom?"  or state" I want them to be here now!  It is taking too long."   And I understand because my heart wants to know those answers too.  I trust in my Father's timing and know that HE is preparing me, my children, and my Haitian Sensations for the day when we all will finally be together.  In the meantime we are enjoying the journey.  God is good---all the time!

Sunday, February 19, 2012

Hair bow shopping


It's been some time since I have been able to set foot in a Gymboree store for a girl.  So yesterday at the outlet mall I thought it would be fun to get some clearance items for Julena's hair.  I was able to con Emily into this store to help.  We got her the above.  I love the heart necklace and can just see Julena prancing around with her ladybug purse and heart necklace.  I will be sure to post a picture of that when it happens.  I looked for an Under Armour headband and wrist bands for the boys to bring to them when we visit.  I'm still searching.  The shopping find of the day is below:


Yes, Disney's Princess Tiana.  Got it at the Disney Store for $3.50.   I have not even seen this movie but we are going to watch it tonight on Netflix.  This week we should find out if our adoption file has moved any.  It's Mardis Gras /Carnival in Haiti on Monday and Tuesday so I won't know anything til Thursday at the earliest.
On a final note, thanks for all the support that you have given us.  I have not been able to thank every one of you who have emailed us yet, but I will get to you soon.  Keep praying for us and the kids.

Thursday, February 16, 2012

What to do while waiting

Waiting is hard, so during this time we decided that it would be a great idea to go seem MINNIE--the mouse that is.  It was a glorious, exhausting vacation.   The kids were the perfect ages to go.  We had a great time as a party of 5, but all of us talked about how fun it will be to bring the additional 3 with us.  They are never far from our minds.  "We will all have riding partners the next time," was the comment most often verbalized.
My how our princess has grown.  This time at Disney there were no princess costumes to be worn, no excitement over meeting Mickey, and no photos to be taken with Cinderella.  I look forward to enjoying that again with Julena.  We have scouted out all of the Princess Tiana gear and know that Julena will look lovely in the  princess attire.
All was not lost though,  I did get her to wear a Mickey hat--due to the chilly weather and her insistence on wearing shorts"because you only wear shorts in Florida" mentality.  Jack totally took to the Mickey Sorcerer look, and you couldn't  Sam not to wear Agent P attire.

We were all sad to leave, but also excited to sleep in our own beds.  We left knowing that our travels will take us to Haiti next to meet the rest of our family.  There is so much more to share, but for now as most of you know--Disney is a quest to be conquered which we did .  But you end up coming home more tired than when you left.

Wednesday, February 8, 2012

The Nanny

These are the loving arms that welcomed my sons to the orphanage.  The hands that gave them new clothes, baths, food, toys , and a bed to sleep on--maybe the first bed they have ever slept on.  This wonderful woman whom I will get the honor of meeting and showering her with gifts also provided much love, attention, and comfort to their grieving hearts. As you can tell by their faces--they are the faces of grief.  Their is deep sadness, despair, and shock.  I did not receive a picture of Julena and her nanny from that day.  I think it is a blessing.  My heart is immediately taken to the memories of  loss when I see these pictures.You see adoption starts out as pain and loss.  And  yet we know the end of this story-- their lives forever changed for the better.  Abundance in forms they never knew possible.  HOPE.   Isn't it the same for us with our heavenly Father?  He takes us from the pain and loss and transforms our lives into beauty, hope, and abundance.  So many times I need to remind myself that God sees the end of the story. 


Friday, February 3, 2012

Music to Our Ears



The Haitian Creole that she says is "GOOD morning" (Bonjou)and they respond the same.  Then she asks them if they want to sing(Chante). They answer (Wi).  She then commands them to sing(Chante!).  

Responsible


WE are responsible for children....
              who put chocolate fingers everywhere.
              who like to be tickled.
              who stomp in puddles and ruin their new pants.
              who sneak popsicles before dinner.
              who erase holes in their math workbooks.
              who can never find their shoes.

But WE are also responsible for those
             who stare at photographers from behind broken windows.
             who can't bound down the street in a new pair of sneakers.
             who never "counted potatoes."
             who were born in places where we wouldn't be caught dead.
             who live in an x-rated world.

WE are responsible for children
              who bring us sticky kisses and fistfuls of dandelions.
              who sleep with the dog and bury goldfish.
              who hug us in a hurry and forget their lunch money.
              who cover themselves with bandaids and sing off-key.
              who slurp their soup.

But WE are also responsible for those
              who never get dessert.
              who have no safe blanket to drag behind them.
              who watch their parents watch them suffer.
              who can't find any bread to steal.
              who don't have rooms to clean up.
              whose pictures aren't on  anybody's dresser.
              whose monsters are real.

WE are responsible for children
               who spend all their allowance before Tuesday.
               who throw tantrums in the grocery store and pick at their food.
               who like ghost stories.
               who shove dirty clothing under the bed and never rinse out the tub.
               who get visits from the tooth fairy.
               who don't like to be kissed in front of the carpool.
               who squirm in church and scream on the phone.
               whose tears sometimes make us laugh and whose smiles can make us cry.

And WE  are responsible for those
                whose nightmares come in the daytime.
                who will eat anything.
                who have never seen a dentist.
                who aren't spoiled by anybody.
                who go to bed hungry and cry themselves to sleep.
                who live and move but have no being.

WE  are responsible for children
                who want to be carried and for those who must.
                for those we will never give up  on and
                for those who don't get a second chance.
                and those we smother and
                for those who will grab the hand of anyone kind enough to offer it.

                                                                       by Ina Hughes

I found this in my mother's teaching file that it has taken me 10 years to have enough courage to clean out.  I was so moved by it that I just had to share.  Whether we like it or not,the truth is living in the U. S. we are rich!  With wealth comes responsibility.  It doesn't matter if it is with children,adults, elderly, homeless, disabled, sick, hopeless--WE are responsible to care for them.  Don't wait for someone else to it.  WE can change the world.